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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 20.06.2025 03:41

How does one succeed in life?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

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Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

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The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Procrastinates a lot.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

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Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Making more friends is a goal.

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Avoids sugar and is very fit.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

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Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

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Big dreamer but only in his mind.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

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Saving $10,000 is a goal.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

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“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

What I need from you?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

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Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Does not procrastinate.

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That's it for today.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Ask yourself:

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.